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Change has Come

So, why did I decide to take on my husband’s crazy endeavor?  Honestly, I’m not sure.  I never thought I would have done something like this.  But, I could see in his eyes that his heart was in the right place.  I knew that it wasn’t about some boyish dream…but that he truly wanted to see our relationship grow to new levels.  I was drawn to that.  In the midst of our conversations about it, we happened to have sex 2 days in a row (very rare).  So, I thought….why not make it 3 and just test the waters.  The crazy thing is that I started feeling changes in our relationship by the 3rd day….and I got more intrigued.  We felt a vulnerability with each other through sex and through our conversation that night that was at a deeper level than the norm.  That night we had a very open and honest talk about my fears in taking on such a huge commitment (including the quality of our sex life, my ability to call it quits if it wasn’t working, etc.).  I finally agreed that I was willing to commit to taking it “day by day” and just see how far we could get.  The changes in my husband and in our relationship were so dramatic that it became a no-brainer for me.  I have stood in awe of the impact our sex life has had in our marriage.  We are not the same people we were 29 days ago.

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